The wording of Fighting Stadium is now as follows, "The attacks of each {F} Pokémon in play (both yours and your opponent's) do 20 more damage to the opponent's Active Pokémon if it is a Pokémon-EX (before applying Weakness and Resistance)." This stadium should only impact the Active Pokémon-EX belonging to the opponent of the attacking Pokémon.
Source: TPCi Announcement (2014-11-18), TPCi Rules Team (2014-11-20)
Is the damage bonus from Fighting Stadium applied to all Defending Pokemon-EX, or only the opponent's Active Pokemon-EX?
It will apply only to an opponent's Active Pokemon-EX, not to any Benched Pokemon-EX.
Source: TPCi Rules Team (2014-11-13)